Based on my reseach, and the experiences of thousands of
readers, I compiled the following list of warning signs that a romantic
interest may, in fact, be a sociopath. If you see all or most of them, be
careful.
1. Charisma and
charm. They’re smooth talkers, always have an answer, never miss a beat.
They seem to be very exciting.
2. Enormous ego.
They act like the smartest, richest or most successful people around. They may
actually come out and tell you that.
3. Overly attentive.
They call, text and e-mail constantly. They want to be with you every moment.
They resent time you spend with your family and friends.
4. Jekyll and Hyde
personality. One minute they love you; the next minute they hate you. Their
personality changes like flipping a switch.
5. Blame others.
Nothing is ever their fault. They always have an excuse. Someone else causes
their problems.
6. Lies and gaps in
the story. You ask questions, and the answers are vague. They tell stupid
lies. They tell outrageous lies. They lie when they’d make out better telling
the truth.
7. Intense eye
contact. Call it the predatory stare. If you get a chill down your spine
when they look at you, pay attention.
8. Move fast.
They quickly proclaim that you’re their true love and soul mate. They want to
move in together or get married quickly.
9. Pity play.
They appeal to your sympathy. They want you to feel sorry for their abusive
childhood, psychotic ex, incurable disease or financial setbacks.
10. Sexual magnetism.
If you feel intense attraction, if your physical relationship is unbelievable,
it may be their excess testosterone.
Juan Morales
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